girlfriends

well i dont really have that many, and never did have one when i needed... but somehow it is good to have a 'girlfriend'... Lately i have been hanging out with my parents and yes a few girlfriends... One of whom i had since primary school, then we seperated after changing school, living away and had seperate lives... Then somehow along the way after growing up and maturing we found each other again :) which was good... as it was soo much fun catchin up on all those years we both seperate and we did have a lot of gossiping, memories and all to share...
Now we are in constant contact which is nice, and we hope to maintain it that way.. i remember when we were young we always said that our kids would grow up together... so may that happen, as i feel she is a true dear friend, and so glad we found each other again...
i also have my skating girlfriends, it's nice coz we share a common interest and passion as well as i guess we are on the same wave length as well... i like them...
i have had in the past several girlfriends who hmm decided to 'bite' me and they are now gone, sad but true...
today i had lunch with my skating gf's and it was good to hangout with them, as they gave me a better insight eon relationship, as they both are going through two different phases of relationship and are two different personalities... :)
hehe yes they gave me a nice long lecture on relationship and how "you shud just dive in, risk it, enjoy life" (just like entering business or some sort like that) but anyway what they tried to emphasis and convince me that some ppl do get their happy endings and just because those around me don't, i should not be influenced and i could have a happy ending of my own as i have a nice guy in hand :)